Your sexuality is perfect and valid just as it is. If you’re ace, never force yourself to be with sexually intimate with someone. If you’re ace, a term that is short for asexual, it means you are not sexually attracted to anyone. There isn’t a right or wrong way to be bi or pan. For some people the split can be around 50/50. Some bi and pan people are more attracted to people of a certain gender, or no/all genders than another. Bisexuality and Pansexualityīisexual and pansexual people are sexually attracted to people of all genders/no genders.
There are so many factors behind whether people feel ready to publicly or privately define their sexuality. It’s important to remember that someones sexuality is always valid, regardless of whether or not they’re ‘out’. Lesbian is a term used for women who are attracted to other women. Gay is the most common term used for men who are attracted to other men. People attracted to people of the same gender are gay or queer. Those who are emotionally, physically and sexually attracted to people of the opposite gender are heterosexual.Ī lot of people also use the word ‘straight’ when talking about those who identify as heterosexual.
Okay, so let’s talk about the 4 main categories of sexuality Heterosexuality Queer is a more inclusive term because it covers a bunch of different gender variations and sexualities. When talking about people who don’t identify as cisgender or heterosexual, people often prefer to use the term ‘queer’ instead of gay. conversation, including but not limited to lesbians, bisexuals, pansexual, asexuals, some transgender people, non-binary and gender non-conforming folk.įor more on gender & sexuality head to our LGBTQ+ Glossary This is problematic because it erases a bunch of people from the. People often use ‘gay’ as an umbrella term for all non-heterosexual sexualities or non-cisgender identities. What’s the difference between Queer & Gay? The people who do not have the power to define your sexuality are your parents, teachers, friends, religious people, politicians and people on the internet. Only you have the ability to define your sexuality. Here’s my first bit of advice – you will not find the answers you are looking for at the bottom of an internet quiz, a checklist, a stranger’s opinion, anyone or anything else. But we are here to give you some healthy pointers that will help you feel more comfortable in exploring your sexuality